Thursday ended up being a college party at one of the fraternities. It was fun to see old friend, though I didn't really open any sets throughout the night. As my article states, it was the thing of not opening any sets, and not really reaching the state of Indifference. I should follow my own advice… it's actually really good. The night ended up me just hanging out with old friends, going around etc…
I did run into the girl I hooked up with a couple weeks ago, right as she was leaving. I had crossed paths with her earlier in the night, but I didn't stop her and we "didn't notice each other." In hindsight, I should have probably stopped her and continued where things were left off. When she saw we hugged for a prolonged period of time and as we were facing her friends she was running her fingers around my back (strong IOI). I think it's still a green light… I'd have to act pretty quickly if I want to keep things going.
After I ran into her again, I went over and started talking to one of my buddies. Not entirely sure why I didn't stick with her… in hindsight, it was probably the best move... it gave a little push after the pull, and made me seem less needy, but the reason for why that happened wasn't as tactical. To be honest, I felt a little awkward, but I've been feeling a bit off throughout the week (more on that in my next post), but I do need to work on just being in the moment and getting into the vibe in social situations, and not just off a cold-approach.
She ended by saying.. "it was good seeing you even if it was just for 2 seconds," and I texted her with a "let's aim for 3 seconds next time." It hit and she responded back positively.
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